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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why on earth did you pretend to like the cabin when you were dating?  I’m team husband here because you knew what you were getting into when you married him.  He probably thought how great it was that the woman he loved enjoyed the outdoors as much as he does.  Bait and switch OP.

In regards to the allergic reaction, that’s an issue.  But like others have said before it’s not expensive to outfit this place to be more comfortable by putting in curtains and doors.  It takes very little effort and money.  The allergic reaction thing?  On top of all the other reasons you have this place?  I’m not sure I’m buying it.[/quote]

DP. Well, the "OP is lying" posters have come along.

I believe you, OP. And if this PP never, ever faked even a tiny bit of enthusiasm for something a significant other adored but PP didn't care for -- wow, what a paragon of moral rectitude that PP must be.  :roll:

Oh, and I'm betting the PP doesn't even know that allergies can develop over time -- even in adults. And that with global warming, allergies are worsening for many people especially in locations where there is damp and mold and more stuff is growing.....

Anyway, OP, your DH sounds like he's not taking you seriously. That, even more than his love for the cabin, is a problem that needs addressing. Does he dismiss you in other ways?.... The fact he gets huffy and petulant if you don't go [i]repeatedly[/i] is also a problem. He does not have the compromise gene, does he. Tell him he gets one trip out of you to the cabin each year and otherwise, he takes the kids each time. ANd by the way, OP, does he go places YOU want to go even if he's not thrilled by them? I would ask myself that, in your shoes. If the answer is no, maybe time for a broader talk about more than just the cabin. [/quote]

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