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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I am miserable in my marriage a huge amount of the time, and I have the means to leave.

I didn’t call the cops because I didn’t want to put my kids through the experience of being interrogated about what they saw and feeling responsible for putting their dad in handcuffs based on what they said.

I guess my point is that things are not black and white when I talk about what happened IRL, but here, anonymously, everyone acts like it’s so black and white. IRL, the consensus is “stick it out” or “work on your own issues” which is just so different from the advice here about physical abuse.[/quote]

You seem to not want to leave.  Ok, then stay.  And if I were your family and got the same vibe from you, that you complain and complain, but have no real desire to leave, I'd say ok, then work things out.  [/quote]

I agree with everyone else. Your family and friends will generally follow your lead with regard to your marriage. If you stay they’ll encourage therapy if you leave they’ll offer their guest room. That’s how it goes. In situations like yours people are also wary of voicing their opinion too forcefully and getting cut off if you stay. It happens more frequently than you’d think. [/quote]

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