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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is the poster mad at her computer programmer husband for only making 120k and being content in his job.

Either way, blaming your husband for your stress is not healthy.  You need to take charge of your own choices, and make changes to your own situation.  Resenting him for being happier is childish.[/quote]

My husband is a government worker not a programmer. [/quote]

So he does make in that range.  Check yourself.  Your striving isn’t healthy.  Learn to live within the means you can make without working yourself to death.[/quote]

My other option is to divorce my husband because [b]life sucks with someone when you do not share core values. That’s what I am leaning towards.[/b][/quote]

OP, I'm the PP who makes 3X what my DH does.

You need to reexamine the concept of "core values" and what those mean at a basic level.  Also consider what your life (financial and otherwise) will look like, and what your kids' lives will look like if you divorce.

I strongly recommend that you get individual therapy before doing anything.[/quote]

There's a lot of distasteful things about the OP, but chief among them is that apparently her overriding "core value" is "be wealthy."  Wow.  [/quote]

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