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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is the poster mad at her computer programmer husband for only making 120k and being content in his job.

Either way, blaming your husband for your stress is not healthy.  You need to take charge of your own choices, and make changes to your own situation.  Resenting him for being happier is childish.[/quote]

My husband is a government worker not a programmer. [/quote]

So he does make in that range.  Check yourself.  Your striving isn’t healthy.  Learn to live within the means you can make without working yourself to death.[/quote]

My other option is to divorce my husband because life sucks with someone when you do not share core values. That’s what I am leaning towards.[/quote]

You're a moron for marrying him then. What a selfish POS you are for what you're about to do to your kids lives because "wahhhh I chose a high stress career and dh didn't". Disgusting. [/quote]

I already very clearly stated I made a huge mistake marrying him. That’s on me.

I am still in my 30’s. I really don’t not see how I can make it through another 50+ years with someone with whom I do not share fundamental values without massive, toxic resentment. [/quote]

So get a divorce but realize YOU are the cause for what crap you're about to cause. He isn't even pressuring you to keep this job. [/quote]

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