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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do want to be "neighborly" but quite frankly this is a one-way situation where they get all of the benefit and I get all of the wear and tear and potential risk. I literally NEVER cross into their yards and as I mentioned the one family got annoyed when my kids and some friends stepped over onto their property at one point last year. If their kids want to come on our property to play with my kids or cross occasionally when they are running late or there is bad weather, that's totally fine, but crossing through my yard at least twice per day every single day...at least 4 pairs of feet? That's gonna leave a mark.[/quote] I get that it's annoying, but it's so clear from your posts it annoys you because of the interpersonal dynamics and NOT becuase of the (nonexistent) risks. So own that. You don't seem sympathetic because you have all these excuses about mud and "marks" on the grass. Your resentment isn't really about the kids. [/quote] Actually, it's both. I don't want people using my yard as a cut through every single day, even if we are super close friends. But this situation is worse because half of the people who are abusing my hospitality wouldn't allow the same in reverse.[/quote]
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