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[quote=Anonymous]I have a childhood friend who grew up no trauma in a child centered and very loving home. I still keep in touch in adulthood, though we are not close and she struggles a lot with friendships. She has no depth. The one thing she considers her major trama which she still talks about is a bad job situation. I had practically the same experience and moved on decades ago. I came from a verbally abusive home with frightening dysfunction and had faced quite a few adversities over the years. We both had first bosses that were bullies, but I faced sexual harassment too. It was Hell. I filed a complaint, met with a lawyer, found a new job and moved on. She never worked again. Her parents supported her and then rich husband did. She shares awful stories people she knows have shared and she has no empathy and then she wonders why they fade off. I think when the shit really hits the fan she will will have no ability to cope-no close friends to reach out to, no thinking skills to work through it. She would never seek therapy.[/quote]
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