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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Sorry, but complaining your wife who has metastatic cancer won't have sex with you is not a legit complaint.

It would be one thing if OP has posted in the Health forum looking for advice on how he can improve his wife's health. But complaining that he's not getting laid and that she's not doing yoga and Pilates (because of course he knows better than he doctors!) when she's literally had to [b]fight for her life is not legitimate, it's selfish and whiny.
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You are horrible.

Who do you think is taking care of the kids and the house while helping her fight for her life?  What you do not realize is that you are blinded by sexism.  [/quote]

NP.  What sexism?  This point would be valid even if a wife was on here asking a similar question and the husband had cancer.  [/quote]

BS.  The point is, she's in a position where if she's NED, she's probably not on active treatment and can at least engage with her husband and kids.  I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about some sort of engagement in life.  I get "fighting for her life", I'm a recent BC cancer survivor.  But she also has some responsibility to her family, including attempting to manage her health in some way.[/quote]

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