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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obligated no?  Of course, they aren't obligated to stay married to you if you started as a shoulder length brunette with no tattoos and morph into a multi-colored spike job and enough tats to belong to a biker gang.  I love my wife but if she decided to go off the deep end like that, I'm pretty sure I'd be out as soon as the kids graduated from high school and probably try to avoid going anywhere in public with her.

Flip side, I keep a short beard...if I decided I wanted to look like ZZ Top, I'm pretty sure I'd get told in no uncertain terms that my idea wouldn't fly.

No issues with small changes, but there has to be a limit before a serious discussion needs to happen.[/quote]

This is why I'm not married.  Not into any of that, but the thought of someone else  having a say or feeling like they have a say in what I do with my body makes me cringe. [/quote]

Same! I mean, I am married, but I cannot stand the idea of somebody else being entitled to have a say on what I do with my body (unless, obviously, it’s an affair or something dangerous that might leave DH a single parent or something). Never ever ever. My body my choice. [/quote]

So, your spouse wouldn't have a say in your choice of masking or vaccination?[/quote]

Np here, but yes your spouse can't  actually dictate if you get a vaccine or wear a mask[/quote]

PP wasn't talking about her spouse "dictating." She said that her spouse would never ever ever even have a say in the matter. [/quote]

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