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[quote=Anonymous]What is it with pp's who knew their husbands were useless after a first baby, and stay to have 2 more kids?! I can't even touch that.

OP don't be them. Your husband is a daily pothead. Idc what anyone says, daily weed use makes people useless. I broke up with a lovely guy (not husband) who smoked weed daily, but was functional, unlike your DH.

Don't know how pregnant you are, but I'd temporarily separate, create a new space (home) now. It might be your current place or another depending on your finances. Leave him to his own devices, including the dogs. He can help himself with therapist support, or go to town being a useless mf. Let him know when doc appts are, and other details pertaining to the pregnancy. That's it. He needs a serious wake up call. You can't facilitate this. He does the work to get his wife and child back while you prepare for the baby. If he steps up, great. If not, at least you have your nest ready for baby. Otherwise, it'll be chaos. Don't listen to the posters who say you're a martyr, controlling, etc. So sorry.[/quote]

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