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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP as long as DH makes good money and you are okay with separate lives, that is your best play. [/quote]

I’m not okay with separate lives. I was in a LTR (5 years) before this where we did live completely separate lives and it was awful. I picked my H because we had SO much in common, and he used to be so thoughtful. But lately it feels like he’s realized marriage and family aren’t for him, or at least not with me, which is funny because he’s accused me of not wanting to be with him.

A PP mentioned depression and I do think he may be depressed. He sees a therapist but won’t take medication. I empathize because I’ve struggled with depression as well, but I know from experience that moping around at home all day and playing on your phone until 2am makes it so much worse. [/quote]

Then you wait it out and hope he gets better and takes a more active role in family life or you move on. If you do stay, though, I suggest that you don’t hold yourself back from enjoying activities you like just because he doesn’t want to get off the couch.

Personally, I would stay. Especially if I wanted more kids. But I’m also the pp with the 1950’s ish setup and I was ok with doing the brunt of the childcare. If that’s not for you or you’d rather stick to one and DH is not getting any better divorce may be in your future.

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