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[quote=Anonymous]Feeling indifference from a husband or wife, for years, is very damaging. On multiple levels. The work toward repair will be long and sometimes very hard....you are used to fantasies of leaving as well....as much as possible, see if you can turn away from that for awhile. Try to keep working on it but make sure he is working very hard too..Just turn toward him, in small acts of presence, day by day. You don't have to feel anything. Just keep turning toward him and relating in that moment as you have been. Over time that can be very powerful. Even if you divorce...it can be powerful. No one can predict how you will feel in a year or down the road. Just focus on the work now...this helped us get through times on the ledge. Good luck op.[/quote]
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