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[quote=Anonymous]Its hard to say what's going on here. Maybe Mom is way too overbearing and overstepping boundaries. Or maybe she sees what OP can't, which is that this is a bad match.

when my brother was engaged, I had one--one single--conversation with him about how I thought his fiancee was not a good fit/not healthy, etc. It didn't go anywhere and I didn't push it. It was a 10 year nightmare that bankrupted and broke him. I wish I had been more adamant, but I also knew and know that there's only so much you can do when someone is set to marry.

I do worry about OP and his fiance calling each other names. That's a sign of poor conflict resolution. I understand the stressors, but there will always be stressors, and worse ones (job loss, kids, illness, etc).

OP, do you have any doubts? Do you think your mom has valid concerns?

to answer your question, If I were determined to marry someone I would not cancel because a parent refused to participate. But I would also hope that in this circumstance someone resolution can be found. Can your fiancee reach out to your mom? [/quote]

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