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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You and your therapist are working on making this relationship the right one because of your age and your desire for a family since you’re already 38.

What you don’t seem to know is how to tell if the person you’re dating will be a good spouse to you after marriage and where to set boundaries for yourself.  You need to know what the red flags are, what the non-negotiables are for you, and be willing to drop this guy if he’s not the right one.

Suggest getting premarital counseling with him and see how willing he is to work on things with you now.  If he’s willing to go and do the necessary work, that would be a good sign.  If not, you’ll have your answer.[/quote]

The core issue with him is that he is great as long as he is getting his way. He doesn’t take “no” well and can get very nasty when we disagree.[/quote]

Eew what a turn off! Go out tonight, you'll easily see there are better options or plan some dinners out with your girlfriends. I went into marriage with doubts but none were concerning compatibility or possible aggression. I would find an aggressive personality exhausting. It's one thing to be that way in work and another towards your partner [/quote]
op - this is exactly the WRONG guy to procreate with and depend on emotionally and financially!  Do you think he’s going to be better towards you once you are “his” and depending on him???[/quote]

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