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[quote=Anonymous]You never really know what goes on in anyone's head, or in any relationship between two other people. There are plenty of heterosexual couples that don't have much or any sex. And there are plenty of gay or bi men that can enjoy sex with women. I agree with those who say that it isn't always black and white. People try to make the best choices they can within the constraints they face, and we should not judge them unless we have walked a mile in their shoes. As for missing out on a part of your father, I think we only ever see a very partial side of other people, particularly our parents. After my mother died, going through her stuff, I thought a lot about all the parts of her life and personality I had never really seen or understood. I think part of the grieving process is realizing that you will always have your memories, but that these are a very partial component of who the person was.[/quote]
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