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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend works in finance and has been super stressed with work deadlines. He’s been working 11-12 hour days and he’s exhausted. He hadn’t been mad, [b]but he’s definitely more irritable and crabby[/b]. I’ve been just trying my eta to be supportive but I really don’t know how besides making sure he has something to eat and sex. He doesn’t really want to talk about it and I get it. How can I let him know I’m here for him and how to relax? [/quote]

So you do all the domestic work, make meals, keep house, maybe worn at your own job?  He goes to work, eats delivered food on company dine, works 8-8, and comes home to BJ and a ready to play sex kitten?  He will only get worse with age. All the IB folks I knew thrived on the long hours, partied a bit at end of work day, it was a very gung ho culture. It sounds like he wasn’t built for it, which is fine, but he will need to pivot careers before they do it for him. [/quote]

OP here. No. This is a stressful time but that doesn’t mean I do everything all of the time. He’s doing the job of 3 people. He loves his job and has been doing it for over 10 years.

We usually trade off on dinner and cleaning. If I cook, he cleans up after dinner and vice versa. Most days we cook together and clean together. We are both clean the rest of the house.

He works from home and eats what we have at home.

He doesn’t get sex anytime. It’s not like I’m waiting at the door or in bed when he gets home. Most days we have sex but it’s because I want to do it too. I love sex and enjoy it. There are days I’m not into it, or days he’s not into it, and that’s fine. We know how to self pleasure or wait a day.

He doesn’t expect anything from me. He’s an equal partner. I’m doing a little more while he’s busy working these hours, but he’s also done more on days or weeks that I’m busy. [/quote]

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