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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.
I date all races. Like I said before I've never turned down a date from a fuy who expressed interest.  I've accepted dates from all races, men who were taller than me, shorter than me and the same height. I've accepted dates from men who are overweight and men who were skinny. I have had crushes on and been attracted to all types of men.  I have just noticed that the guys who 9/10 catch my eye almost instantly are as I described in my OP.  I didn't get much into to values because I don't accept dates from guys who don't share my values or interests.  I have mostly had great conversations and been on great dates with all the men I've been out with. The problem is I am left feeling like I am hanging out with a buddy, a brother, or a cousin.   It a good time and a good conversation, but I am not at all attracted to them and in a couple of cases have felt physically ill just thinking of kissing the guy.

There was in fact a guy who was not the type I described at all who I would have continued seeing, but he ghosted me after a couple of dates. There was another guy as well who was different physically from my type but I enjoyed his company and we had great conversations. I wasn't extremely physically attracted to him, but I felt like that was something that could grow had we spent more time together, The problem with him was that he had no time to spend with me Was constantly late for dates or wanted to reschedule, and never wanted to make a solid plan for our time together, I felt like an afterthought so I  ended things.

As for why I think I may have a type. I didn't grow up in a very diverse area like DC so the guys who were available for dating during high school and college were white.   The first guy I truly had deep feelings for was a tall nerdy white guy, we didn't work out too young, but I think I may be caught up on him in some way.

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