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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]brown girl pining over white boys is maybe the root of the problem. not about racism but just about attraction. white guys generally speaking date white girls, then asian .. especially the nerdy type guys seem to be more with asian girls. so brown/black is probably lower on the attraction spectrum for the average white nerdy boy

if you restrict yourself to a race that is not your own and to a type that might not usually go for your type then you only have yourself to blame[/quote]

did you guys read about the latest and greatest census report? we are now the most diverse generation ever. BUT only 4% are still mixed race couples. Hello, OP please accept reality. i'm not saying it cannot happen but chances are less.

BTW on a side note I'm a brown guy married 12yrs to a white girl .. of course I dated all races before I got married but most of them were my own race. I dated a couple white girls before I met my wife, it just happened. so it can happen but IT IS NOT THE NORM even in lib DMV area. I was somewhat saddened to learn that still only 4% of this country are mixed race. so my kids are still very much in the minority. hope none of them get whatever affliction the OP has to be only interested in a certain type or certain race and that being a race not even her own.
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why are you saddened to learn only 4% of the country is mixed race? Most people marry within their own race. That is the norm. White men are attracted to white women primarily. That is normal. What is abnormal is looking at your own race and thinking to yourself - nope, not for me! Internalized hatred is a terrible thing.

As for mixed race, I hate to be the one to break this to you but in the U.S. if your kids are brown, having a white parent doesn't give them any advantages other than maybe some benefits from colorism when they are compared to darker complexioned people. [/quote]

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