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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I found out my spouse was having an affair by going through her texts. I confronted her, it was really ugly and heartbreaking with a lot of begging for forgiveness, and I was told that it was mostly an emotional affair with some kissing and handholding. Something still was not sitting right with me. The following day I engaged in some higher level snooping and found out that there was sex. So basically everything I found out so far has been through snooping. While my spouse is very apologetic and there has been a great deal of crying and emotional turmoil on both sides, she has made a few snarky (and serious) remarks about her total lack of privacy at my hands. I did apologize for my actions but I’m trying to get her to understand that, so far, she has not made any progress towards regaining my trust. Over the past week there have several layers of incredible deceit.[/quote]

Double-edge sword because depending on how you snooped, she can have you arrested for it. This only matters if there will be divorce proceedings and you think you will use the information you found as evidence.[/quote]

Oh please, OP is not going to be arrested for the snooping. Some of you do not live in the real world.

OP, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Maybe your DW will come to her senses and be fully remorseful and try to make it right. You sound like a nice person and you'll be okay either way, in time.[/quote]

Probably not but it can be an issue if there is a divorce/legal proceedings[/quote]

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