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[quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised by all the people blaming the mom here. It's like when when a women gets raped or abused and people ask her what she was wearing or what she did to aggravate the abuser. Or targeting learning and behavior programs at the women who are being affected by abuse/rape rather than at the men who are causing it. It's the men who are causing the problem and the men who should be treated and studied and blamed. Let's put the blame where it really belongs. (Of course we can have support programs for the women who are victimized, but let's not forget that it's the perpetrator of the violence and abuse that has caused the problem and deserves the blame.) How much further would we be as a society if in addition to education about domestic violence and the cycles of violence for victims of abuse, there were actual programs for people at risk of committing domestic violence that were part of our every day life? Programs about how to deescalate your feelings of anger and control your behavior? Instead of just teaching women about exactly which point in a cycle of violence is the best one to try to escape your abuser?[/quote]
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