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Asian kids get to grow up in way better and safer environments than kids of other racial groups. It’s not even close. [/quote]

Well, better yes. Safer? Not really.  A case in point - two homes on the same street. Similar HHI and SES,, each home has a kid, both same age, both going to same school. Parents are equally educated in both cases. One kid is my Asian-American kid the other kid is not Asian-American.  My kid is considered privileged because his parents are married whereas the other kids parents divorced a few years back.  I get up at 5 am to cook for the day, the other mom orders in food.  I clean my own house, the other mom is always sipping wine on her patio while a cleaning lady is cleaning her home. I take my kid for scholastic competitions and the other mom has BBQ and beer in the backyard.  My kid does well in school and the other kid could not care less. My kid does not get everything he wants because we are saving for college, the other kid gets all the electronics and smart phone you can think of. My kid wears hand me downs from his cousins, the other kid only wears brand-name stuff.  My kid excels in academics and ECs, the other kid is troubled and chooses not to attend classes.  The other kid's home has CCTV, Ring, Alarm Service.  It is more secure and safe than Fort Knox.   So his environment is safer.  Maybe he and his family think that their life is also better?  Maybe they think that his future is brighter?  I don't know.  What I do know that it is insulting to call the sacrifices of the parents as a privilege. Everyone can make these sacrifices for their children as no one is stopping them from doing so. No one is also forcing them to have children if they are incapable of raising them.  The parents can use their human brain instead of their  animal brain and make the simple choice to put their kid first. We are not talking about kids in ghettos who are scrambling to survive.

But sure, it was a grand nefarious plan of Asian parents to create a healthy home life for their children. O, Shoot me,  for giving a damn for my child.  Sorry for knowing how to cook rice three different ways!! :roll: [/quote]

DP: I don't disagree with some of your points, but I question your stereotypical treatment of others and neglect of discussion of the more prevalent systemic factors involved in discrimination and racism.  And, also, like it or not, at least one principle guiding policies in the US is to try to give each CHILD an equal opportunity, less dependent on what their parents do.  Does this sometimes reward poor parental decisions? Yes. But it does act as a small counter to the idea that your parents' sacrifices/assets/choices/strengths determine your outcome.  [/quote]

But kids have always been at the mercy of whoever they were born to (or raised by). That stroke of fortune is the most determinant factor in their outcome I believe.[/quote]

Which is why we have at least a few policies that try to counter the lifelong impacts of that.[/quote]

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