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[quote=Anonymous]OP, just so you know, this will only get worse after kids. I'm not sure I would call it abuse, but I'm familiar with this communication style - when you bring up an issue, he blows it up, blames it on you, without ever being open to discussing, so that you are afraid to bring it up again. It's a type of defensive reaction to something that causes him discomfort or anxiety. This is completely not ok, and you should not tolerate it. You need to either have a come to jesus moment and let him know that this way of communicating is a dealbreaker for you. And if it's not something that he can change, you need to let him know that this marriage is not going to work for you and be ready to end it. You deserve better than to be treated like this in a marriage. [/quote]
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