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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?[/quote]

Your given isn't exactly "given." You haven't even defined your terms. How much sex? What kind? Every couple negotiates those variables in one way or another. Women do have more trouble after menopause. Men have trouble as they age too. Lubrication and medication can help these things. Also, having sex less often starts sounding less objectionable for many couples (including the men.) As for the "release," rumor has it that some men have, in rare instances, been known to release themselves. Or, if not rarely, possibly close to every man, every day starting at age 13.

Are you wrong? As the math saying goes, you're underlying premises are so far off, not only are you not right. You're not even wrong. [/quote]

This is the most reasonable post on this thread. Over the age of 50, sex is unlikely to be the primary reason for marital discord or divorce. It’s a factor, but for many couples a diminishing one. That doesn’t mean people who divorce at this age might not look forward to more compatible sex lives with new partners. But it’s more complex than that.[/quote]

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