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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really hate to be this person, but honestly OP, and not just OP, but why even have a parenting app with this person? Is it court ordered? [b]Even if it is, I'd have my attorney object to it and ask for all communication to be between the lawyers.
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Because I see this stuff and that he keeps calling the police and whatnot and then there's all this effort by the mom to keep the peace and negotiate, etc., etc. [b]Just stop talking to this douchebag. [/b]Stop running every band aid by him and live your life.

I am not trying to blame the victim here. I just think women are conditioned to and expected to smooth it all over, make it easy, be perfect. I guarantee the OP's jerk/addict ex literally never thinks about keeping the peace for even one second.[/quote]

DP here.

PP, your post clearly shows you have no clue what you are talking about. Are you divorced and co-parenting with a personality-disordered person? Do you know how family court works and also how it is used by people like OP's ex? Are you familiar with post-separation abuse and coercive control? My guess is the answer is no to all of those questions.

And the bolded above: ask for all communication to be between the lawyers? Do you have any idea how unbelievably expensive that is? Do you realize how expensive it is to simply have to keep an attorney on retainer for YEARS because you are in a nightmare post-divorce situation with a monster? All communication between lawyers = you need to have $millions$ at your disposal. Also, "just stop talking to the douchebag"? You cannot do that in a co-parenting situation. OP's ex will try to drag her to court claiming "alienation".

PP, just be thankful you have no clue what it is like to be in a nightmare situation like this. Many people don't get it. Unless you are in it.
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