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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really don't think leaving an abusive drunk can be characterized as flitting away because you "don't want that lifestyle anymore ". What's amazing to me is that the GF and her siblings apparently have a better relationship with their father who was jailed for abuse than they do with the mother who abandoned them to him.

OP, your GF needs extensive therapy to come up with good boundaries for everyone in her family of origin.   If you love her, you should support her in that, but go in eyes wide open.  Personally I would want to have a lot of premarital counseling about how you and she intend to protect your nuclear family from her family of origin. [/quote]

I didn’t say she flitted away because she didn’t like the lifestyle she chose. I said she abandoned her kids (to an abusive drunk) because she didn’t like the lifestyle she chose. I’m not saying she shouldn’t leave an abusive spouse. I’m saying she shouldn’t have abandoned her children, leaving them with an abuser with addiction problems. She chose her spouse and to have multiple children with him, then when she couldn’t deal with it anymore she left them all. The children didn’t choose that situation and couldn’t leave when they had had enough.

The fact that they have a better relationship with their dad speaks volumes about how bad their mom must be/have been. [/quote]

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