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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m struggling with parenting my 2 kids, ages 5 and 2.5. The 2.5 yo has special needs and takes medication that causes tantrums/meltdowns.

I work full time and have a full time nanny. I really enjoy my job.

I don’t know what’s going on lately but I’m just so worn down. This age combination is killing me. It’s Friday afternoon and I’m dreading the weekend. I hate weekends and love Monday mornings when the nanny takes over.

I’m not looking for tips, but maybe predictions? When will we turn the corner?

My 5 yo is actually delightful and not too hard. The 2.5 year old is very hard, and the two of them together is downright excruciating.

My DH is only moderately helpful. He’s very checked out. Please don’t try to give advice on how to change him-it isn’t possible. It is what it is. I’ve had periods like this before but never ones that have lasted so long.

Will 3 and 5 be better? 4 and 6? What’s the longest rut you’ve been in-where it all felt like a slog? How did you pull yourself out?

I’m on antidepressants and have a therapist.[/quote]

You have a child with special needs.  We can't predict when that child's behavior will get better.

I know you're not looking for advice, but I'm going to give you some anyway.

Look into weekend help.  Split and conquer with the weekend nanny/sitter.  Spend some 1-1 time with your 5yo, enjoy it.  Spend some time with your 2.5yo, until you need a break.  Have the nanny there with you when you have both together, and either tag out for 5-15 minutes for a break or split them up again.  Do what you need to do.[/quote]

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