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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here with an update. So I told the guy that I am looking to find someone to date seriously, but that becoming exclusive is something that happens organically over time after getting to know someone. He seemed to accept that. He has been texting a lot though.

One thing I’ve noticed about myself is that I like to ease into a relationship. I take my time with giving someone attention. Once I’m into them I like a lot of quality time, and often end up with partners who want less quality time. Maybe do I need to warm up more to people like this guy to find men who like a lot of quality time down the road?[/quote]

I'm glad he seems to be accepting your boundaries.

As for your second paragraph, I don't know what you mean?  I don't believe in playing games or following  "rules" for example I don't believe in the wait X amount of days to tell him you enjoyed the date or whatever. However, there is something to be said for a little mystery especially early on, leave something to talk about on the dates.[/quote]

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