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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, I disagree with most of PPs. This is a completely legitimate request. If we’re going to try dating, then I don’t want to feel like you just got done blowing someone else earlier that day.

It’s not a “commitment” or controlling. We have a date, or a couple dates, and it’s not clicking then cool. We go our separate ways. But I don’t think it’s odd to just date one person at a time, even if it’s only briefly. [/quote]

I agree with this. I'm female and would have no interest in dating a player, nor would I want to be one.

It's hard to tell the situation with OP's guy without more context. Is he trying to avoid women who want to play the field and doesn't want to waste even one date if he knows in advance this would be a deal breaker? You might not work out after even the first date, but maybe he's just trying to filter as much as he can before then. This seems reasonable to me.

If he's professing his desire for a serious, long-term commitment to OP without even meeting her, then she needs to run.[/quote]

Dating multiple people until you decide on one to be exclusive with does not make you are player.
A player. Is someone who leads someone on and is dishonest about intentions. Bye you can be exclusive with a player :wink:

[b]Also you are agreeing with a man who believes he has a right to control your sexuality. Is disgusted by you being intimate with another man, and who would likely shame you for having more partners than he seems appropriate. Finally he thinks going on a date entitled him to sex. [/b]Don't be do quick to cosign and be the cool chick.[/quote]
What?[/quote]

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