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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just out of the blue this came up for you, OP? Or did something trigger it? I’m just trying to understand what might make my husband aware of what sounds like an ongoing issue for many years in such a way as to realize he wants to do something about it.[/quote]

This slightly empty feeling is recent, just looking to get us closer. [/quote]

I’m sorry, OP. This year has definitely been hard, and sounds like you are at a draining stage of life on top of it.

Sounds cheesy but you know what they say — if you’re feeling distant in a relationship it’s because one or both you is having trouble being close to yourself. When you’re in the presence of someone who is connected with themselves and emotionally open then it makes you feel yourself and want to be open back. There’s no secret recipe for intimacy but sometimes you gotta just dig through those feelings you mentioned like resentment, loneliness etc and feel each other. There’s no reason you can’t be close again. Good luck.[/quote]

Op here:
What an incredibly enlightening response, thank you for writing this. This all makes total sense, she is feeling out of sorts because of looming menopause and that is throwing her off which might throw me off. The kids are all out for the weekend, we would have to dinner with friends last night and had an awesome time, we spent the whole day together today, I took her to my favorite place for lunch and we just went to target and ran some errands but it was a really nice day and she seemed relaxed and happy.

I have a plan, I am going to be an easy-going non-demanding rock that will grease some of the rails for her that I can so she has the space to come to terms with what she’s going through; hopefully we’ll be back to where we were soon. [/quote]

You’re welcome. Someone wise once told me, construction is a series of compromises. It looks like a mess now but you’ll get there.[/quote]

OP here:
M or F
Who are you?!? I say that all the time! [/quote]

Let’s just say… I hope I helped you as much as you helped me. And I’ll never mention it so don’t worry. [/quote]

Wow you’re smart, I hope you have a good ride home from the beach. [/quote]

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