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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ExH was not a serial cheater. He had a secret second life for 6 years before I found out. Across Atlantic, on his business trips - they were renting apartments, traveling. And in parallel he had a picture-perfect DC life with me- son in private school and sports, traveling, outings with friends. I cant say we had sex every day, but we always had it at least once a week on weekends, like many other couples married for a long time. I am a former model, 2 masters' degrees. His affair partner was 11 years older than me, a married mother of 2. The woman definitely saw her "best times" judging from her photos (never met her in person since my divorce).

What do I tell instead of all this crazy shit? [/quote]

Sorry, you went through this PP? What do you think was lacking in between you and your ex-H in your marriage? I think that's what you should focus and show as a sign on learning and improving from past experience. I could see that you are still resentful and for the obvious reasons but a new guy won't be interested in hearing too much of it. Have you gone to therapy?[/quote]

WTF????????????????????   What was wrong with her marriage???  Her Husband is what was wrong!! Only a sociopath or extreme narcissist can lead a double life.  Nothing was wrong with HER.  Quit blaming the victim.

Women do this (blame the victim) because they don't want to believe being betrayed could happen to them.  A wife can be hot, a high earner, never nagging, hot in the bedroom and fun...and some men will still cheat.  It's 2021, listen to Esther Perel, so often cheaters will say they did it to 'feel alive' and that they love their spouse, they are a great person.  It's a person with awful coping skills or going through internal crisis.[/quote]

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