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[quote=Miraclemomma]I have dated 4 divorced men, all over the age of 40.  Usually, their ex-wives are  stable, smart, professional and rational people. The man maybe won the genetic lottery with height, good looks, good sex skills or some other charming trait that will easily help a woman look beyond his flaws.

Divorced guy 1- Cheated on his very successful, millionaire wife with an office secretary and was fired from his job. He turned out to be self absorbed sex addict, who was bad at sex. I was young and he took me out to nice places in DC to eat.

Divorced guy 2- Aspie, science nerd  and dad who spent all of his waking hours buried in a book. He was very giving and sweet.  Turned out he had a micro penis!

Divorced guy 3- Handsome, confident, narcissistic and fun dad of 2 small children. I actually found letters his ex wife sent explaining why she divorced him. She said he was self absorbed, needed therapy and refused to change. In dating him, I learned he was verbally abusive, critical and had a little bit of psychosis/personality disorder.

Divorced guy 4- Chivalrous attorney, active dad of a 12 year old. His 40 something wife went out and voluntarily became a single mother to a newborn less than 1 year after divorce. I learn that this guy has serious sexual hangups around pregnancy, yet he won't get a vasectomy.

My anecdotal experiences reveal that most men have some hangups that they will likely never get over. Men are very fixed. Marriage is an easy ploy because women love the idea of being chosen vs. actually figuring out if the relationship can last.  Men are famous for latching on to a woman who will tolerate their quirks.

That being said, all my divorced men were wonderful to me. They appreciate sex, affection and want to have fun experiences. I didn't feel compelled to want to marry or even have an exclusive relationship with any of them after dating them.[/quote]

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