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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I think all women are tired of putting up with men. [/b]The me too movement also brought with it just being able to openly say [b]how annoying they are[/b]. The pandemic had to have made this worse. [b]Dealing with one 24/7 can feel pretty oppressive.[/b] I think I would rather be alone than find a woman to be with, but I get it. I’m hanging on by a thread. [/quote]

But what you say in bold does not translate into a fundamental change in sexual attraction.

A straight woman who is, well, actually straight can hate the hell out of specific men who are "oppressive" and be tired of putting up with them but that does not mean she can then flip a switch to be sexually attracted to women instead of, or in addition to, being sexually attracted to men.

If a supposedly straight woman decides to start having sex with women, she has to have had some latent attraction to women all along that she didn't recognize. Sexual attraction is [i]not[/i] the same thing as "I'm tired of men being jerks." It's "I am attracted sexually to women instead of/in addition to men."

If you "find a woman to be with," I hope for her sake that it's because you love and are actually fully attracted to [i]her[/i]. Not because you've had bad experiences with men who are "annoying" and you figure a woman would be...less annoying.

I hope you can see the difference there. I know, you said you'd rather be alone than find a woman to be with, you're just saying you "get it" etc. but i'm not sure you fully do get it. [/quote]

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