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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you think he is on drugs, and that's why he is avoiding doctor?[/quote]
+1 this has all the hallmarks of a closeted addict [/quote]

I think so too.  [/quote]

Op here. It’s definitely not that. We have been home together 24/7 during COVID. He has zero energy and doesn’t do anything except his part time job. He never leaves the house. Neither of us drinks any alcohol either.[/quote]

How many hours a week does he work? Does he lack the energy to do more?[/quote]

Op here. DH is truly a genius-he’s figured out how to work about 15 hours a week and makes $140k/year. But the thing is-historically he’s actually been more functional when he’s had more demanding jobs. He requires structure. He works from home full time now (pre-and post-pandemic), but he did better when he had to go to an office everyday. So while this seems like a unicorn dream job (it would be for me), I feel it actually fuels  the problem.[/quote]

Ummm, what exactly does he do? It sounds a little illicit which could help the separation or divorce. [/quote]

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