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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same. I truly don’t understand it but I can get the whole house looking clean in the time it would take him to make breakfast and load the dishwasher. I think a lot of men don’t have the practice to do it and they don’t feel they have to since someone (their wife) will do it later. I’m so used to picking up and cleaning as I go, it’s an unconscious part of my routine. For DH, it seems to take more mental energy to figure out what needs to get done and then do it.[/quote] It's not a priority for them - that's why. It's not multitasking; it's just expending the energy. If somebody else will do it for them, why not be lazy? E.g., my DH won't do the dishes for days on end. I just did all the dishes while waiting for a pot of coffee to brew. Why? I figured "I have 5 minutes, why not get through the breakfast and lunch dishes." His mind works completely differently. The default is "I do what I want to do, unless forced to do otherwise."[/quote]
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