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[quote=Anonymous]My advice is: get out of the house. You will always be stuck holding the bag if you are around. So when we staggered our schedules for work pre-COVID, i.e. only one parent responsible for getting kids out in the morning, my DH could do it, and decently. When we went remote, and we were both available to get kids ready, suddenly, even as I sort of tried to hold the line, more and more tasks just "naturally" fell to me. Sure, I can and did, discuss and shift some things, but it is remarkable how a fair(ish) division of labor unravels when the DW is available. So I often try to structure things to be actually or constructively absent - and then I don't care (and really don't) how exactly things shake out as long as basics needs are met...[/quote]
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