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[quote=Anonymous]I'm good you guys.  As I said in a follow up, I don't think he did it on purpose anymore.  He was acting annoyed/angry, and in the moment, I thought he might have been angry with me.  But most likely, he was probably just annoyed and angry with himself.

He's a naturally clumsy person (dropping things, bumping into things, hurting himself, spilling things).  He doesn't see things normally, and struggles with some everyday things that everyone else takes for granted, and his default is to assume everyone is criticizing him (and 90% of the time they are not).  And yes, he gets angry, but it is more just the frustration of the everyday - for example, he has trouble with mechanical things like opening packages - so after trying for 5 seconds to open the package, he will flip out and then just break it open with brute force.  I mean, it's kind of comical.

And yeah - I recognize now that I assumed his annoyance and anger was about me when it has nothing to do with me, and I also recognize that I may do that as part of a pattern.  We both come from abusive childhoods so it's probably just residual stuff from our early lives that colors our reactions.[/quote]

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