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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let’s all face it.
 
If he would have said: Ooops, oh shite I accidentally broke your favorite blah blah. I’m so sorry. Aargh.

You wouldn’t be on here posting and no one would be talking about it.

Normal responses to a long way. [/quote]

Yes, exactly.  That's all I would have expected, and I would not have been mad about it.  If it were me that broke something of his, I'd be so apologetic and "oh my goodness, I'm so sorry" would be the first thing out of my mouth.

[b]But I think I just have to keep reminding myself he just doesn't react the same way I do.[/b] [/quote]

It's good that you've finally come to that conclusion, but since it took you so long to get there, you're *really* going to have to keep reiterating it to yourself *before* you react, as it seems your natural instinct with him is to react dramatically/over react... as the pp said "like his mother".

You need to readjust your expectations with him... you married him knowing that he was like this.

If you expect him to react the same way that you would, you'll be in a constant state of disappointment because he's not you.
Having expectations for anyone other than ourselves is unfair.

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[b]So now I’d she hears a crash, she’s not allowed to ask what happened? Walk on eggshells.

It should take 5 questions to get an answer to what crashed apart. How he chooses to respond is not normal. He’s almost trying to escalate a simple questions into an argument in order to avoid answering it entirely.

I doubt he was like that when dating[/b]. [/quote]

Uh, sockpuppet much?

Egg shells?? lol
How would YOU know how he was while they were dating?
How would YOU know he's trying to escalate into an argument?

You're either sockpuppeting or really projecting your own feelings onto the OP right now, because your whole post is "not normal" and defensive. [/quote]

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