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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a train of thought in this thread that seems to suggest that any boundary is worthless so why have any at all. Part of our job as parents is to reflect our values in the boundaries we set for our kids, and it's developmentally appropriate for teens to buck against them, but that dance still plays a role in shaping the adults they become.[b] Setting boundaries gives kids a sense of security and models for them how to set personal boundaries as well.[/b] Just because a kid will figure out how to test them, push them, break them, doesn't mean they don't have value. [/quote] +1 Yes. [/quote] +2[/quote] Nobody is not setting boundaries… some are setting boundaries that will not be followed snd some are setting realistic boundaries.[/quote]
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