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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man, PP really hit a nerve by saying that attractive and traditionally feminine women have much more choice and therefore a higher likelihood of marrying well. [/quote]

If true, it underscores that being a wife is a job that some women are better suited for than others.  Let's be honest about the work it entails, though, and caution women to be aware of what they are being paid for doing it.  Marriage is not the "prize" for winning a beauty contest. [/quote]

PP here. I'd also say that women in happy marriages or married to "good quality guys" possess certain traits.

- no ego. These girls are again, feminine in their disposition in that they naturally know to turn the spotlight on their BF early on and let him take the lead. By doing this they build him up and he, in turn, builds her up by giving her gf privileges and eventually marriage and children and financial support.

- not argumentative. They are chill and go with the flow. Not super demanding. Guys do not like girls who throw a fit and can't be pleased.

- no drama. levelheaded and mature.

Marriage involves sacrifice, humility and putting your husband and children first. Its not about ME its about US.

Selfish, entitled and egotistical people, men and women, are weeded out early by the marriageable types who gravitate towards each other.[/quote]

PP: what kind of married people do you know? I don’t hang out with dramatic, demanding, egotistical people, but the vast majority of the married women I know are argumentative, not chill, and don’t make an effort to let their husbands lead. I hardly know anybody like the women you are describing.  [/quote]

PP here. Maybe its my UMC/UC social circle.[/quote]

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