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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d follow him once to verify this is actually a workout (w/out his knowledge of course).

I almost did that when the studio workouts seemed unusually long Friday afternoons.  If I had, i would have found out a few years sooner.[/quote]

:shock: [/quote]

Exactly.  You never think it could happen even when the signs are staring you in the face.  Here, the husband is AVOIDING family time and responsibilities on a regular basis.  That is exhibit 1 for a slippery slope to escapist behavior.  Maybe the escapism is simply the workouts, but don’t be surprised if computer time is affair prep time, and the two hours at night are when AP is free for dinner/drinks and some action.

Add to that the other poster saying look out for what he does while you are gone during the day too lol.  Goes to shows when there’s a will to cheat, the cheater will find a way. [/quote]

The biggest clue would be that after routinely exercises for 2 hours a day, if his physique doesn't change.  either weight loss or more muscle.  or improved 5k time, etc.

But it really doesnt sound like cheating.  Didnt OP say he goes for a run for 40 minutes, then comes home and stretches, etc for another hour?  I assume that extra time is spent at home.  And I assume he comes home sweaty and dirty from his run?

And to get ahead of the PTSD crowd, sweaty and dirty from sex is a different type of sweaty and dirty from running[/quote]

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