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[quote=Anonymous]So you want to blow up your child's world through divorce because you've lost respect for your child's father? Life is more than about money and job title, OP.

Now for a few other facts: You are nearing 40 as a rapid pace. The single, childless, accomplished men your age or into their 40s don't want to marry a nearly-40-year-old woman with kids. Being a step father comes with a lot of downside (financial responsibility, being told "you're not my dad!") and little upside.

Unless you're just a fun time girl, they will want to understand why you left your husband. Then you say:

"I married the wrong person. I just did not respect my husband. I found him incompetent and underachieving. I  learned over our 7 years of marriage that he was all talk and no action, the type to make excuses instead of taking action. However, he was a good father to our young daughter."

A man of sense with immediately see huge red flags and ruuuun a country mile from even considering marriage to you, OP. They'll feel for the dude, not you.

Stay where you are and work on your attitude and marriage. [/quote]

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