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OP, I do agree with you but I think the two are intertwined. I think my daughter would be better off if I could remarry a better husband reasonably quickly. I think my daughter would be worse off if I could not manage to do this and instead face a rocky dating future. [/quote]

OMG — seriously?  Let me tell you about my lovely stepdaughter (seriously, she is lovely, we get along great).   Her mom is going thru her FIFTH divorce.   Because the fairy tale perfect relationship buzz wore off and she was stuck with someone who wasn’t perfect.   Every new husband was a new amazing partner and step-dad, until he wasn’t.   Then she held nothing but contempt for him.

It’s a miracle my stepchild and my siblings aren’t in completely dysfunctional relationships, but I think it was such a horrible example they went to the other extreme.

Go ahead and divorce if and ONLY if you believe your life and your daughters life would be improved if you were single.

Then get significant therapy before you even start dating , much less jump headlong into another marriage -  “reasonably” and “quickly” are oxymorons in this case,.

If you are attractive and fit, I have no doubt you’ll find someone, but the question is will the bloom wear of that relationship?  Highly likely if he is someone to jump into such a match quickly.  [/quote]

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