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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you get divorced (and let's be real women who have this attitude at your age typically get divorced), honestly, don't even bother with relationships again until you've had a LOT of therapy.

Your thought process sounds very selfish and immature.  Marriage is not all about you and your husband is not some accessory that needs to be fit and make a lot of money to make you look good.

This toxic dynamic that you've established with him also affects him and his confidence and ability to excel- you have contempt for him, which makes him feel uncomfortable and insecure, which leads him to be insecure at work and eat his feelings, which only makes you show more contempt, and so on.  I mean, how would you feel if the person who is supposed to be your partner and main support in life thought you were some loser?  Further, what would you have done if your husband was ill and you really had to take care of him?  Would you have dumped him?  He really deserves better.  Anybody would.

And news flash, you're not Meghan Markle and successful men aren't going to line up to marry a 37 year old divorcee with a toddler no matter how fit you are.  There's just a lot of magical thinking reflected in your posts.

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