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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have other redeeming qualities as a husband rather than a father?  If he knows that you think so badly of him, he may not feel confident to look for other jobs. Maybe you can help him identify other job prospects and encourage him to apply.[/quote]

Ding ding ding. I think it's possible that this woman is complicit in destroying her husband's self esteem, which sapped his energy and ambition. I forsee a future where they divorce, he ends up getting fit and finding a better job, and she languishes on the middle aged woman saying market.[/quote]

Please. My husband is depressed and self-loathing and I am his biggest cheerleader, and it doesn't matter. Whereas when I was depressed and not feeling positive about my life or career, he brought none of that energy, and I still pulled out of it and made my life better because I believe in therapy, medication, and work. Someone who is relentlessly negative does not want a spouse to make constructive suggestions about how to fix his life. If he wanted to fix his life, he'd be fixing his life. [/quote]

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