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[quote=Anonymous]I used to want to change the venue for family things, my house was bigger, had multiple bathrooms, was brighter and easier to move around in. I told myself I was helping, doing something nice. In all reality I was being judgmental and rude to assume someone would rather gather at my house, just because I liked it better. But it wasn't ill-intentioned at the time, just immature. I also was having a bad time in my marriage and life, and this felt like a distraction or something I could contribute or control. Is SIL proud of her house, and also maybe struggling with something else? Maybe feels more secure in her own home? I wouldn't take it so personally, but I would not let her take over either.she needs to make her own plans.when she says let's do my house, then say well we could come by on Tuesday, but for sunday we are sticking with our dinner plans. Idk, it's hard to explain but I don't think its nefarious.[/quote]
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