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[quote=Anonymous]Your wife and daughter both sound normal to me. A 10 month old in an unfamiliar place with unfamiliar people is often going to be a bit nervous, and having your first kid in a pandemic + PPA is not uncommon either. Now is a great time to start setting FIRM boundaries with your parents. My DH and I did this from the start and it pays off. Your family is not a democracy and they don't get a vote, and if they choose to be offended by this decision which has nothing to do with them, that's on them. There's no need to fight about it, you can just repeat blandly something along the lines of "this is the plan/what we have decided, it's not a big deal, and it's not up for discussion."[/quote]
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