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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - the fact that you are wondering if this is "normal" or in any way okay tells me that you don't know what a healthy relationship looks like. Perhaps your even codependent. I would highly recommend therapy for yourself to figure this out. Trust me - I've BTDT, and the quicker you work this out, the more easily you can move on living a happy life.[/quote]

That’s not true.  Many people of all income levels or races get slowly increasingly emotionally abused that they don’t notice until it is much more frequent.  At first they make excuses - he had a bad day at work, he has a stiff upper lip, his parents this or that. Then they see the passive aggressiveness.  THey don’t mention it to anyone since he’s “such a nice quiet guy” when in the neighborhood or a get together.  Then it’s bad, you start feeling sick about it, not know what to do, getting gaslighted as well.  Then you tell someone. Hopefully they listen and don’t say that Bs he’s a nice guy to me BS.  They call it what it is: abuse. You do research, you see where you are in the abuse cycle. You get therapy. You plan your exit or your way of managing things.  Your kids get therapy, they don’t have to label him but they do have to label bad behaviors. Focus on behaviors. [/quote]

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