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[quote=Anonymous]We have one almost 6 year old. She woke up at 6:45, then came into our room at 7:00. We snuggled and took turns making up songs about how much we love our family (her idea, seriously). Then we went downstairs and had breakfast while listening to David Bowie (just watched Labyrinth and now we're all on a kick). She told us about the party they're having at school today and colored while eating. Then I took her to school and DH will pick her up. Life is serene and she's happy and has never said she's lonely.

Let me say, the pressure between ages 1.5 - 3.5 to have a second is INTENSE. Everyone and their mom feels the need to offer unsolicited advice and remind you that the clock is ticking. The societal pressure is enormous, but it doesn't last forever. Once your child hits about age 4, the comments will stop. You are totally right that only kids can and do have rich and fulfilling childhoods. So do children with siblings. It's all about parenting intentionally and creating a joyful home. The right number of kids is the number of kids that allows you to be confident, happy parents. The only advice I have is that whatever choice you make, embrace it and be fully confident in yourself. There is no right or wrong here, so do what you want and be happy.[/quote]

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