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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One thing I find so fascinating about ‘well educated’ women like you is that you feel that being well educated makes you entitled to a high income marriage, 2 beautiful kids healthy kids in private school and in a desireable neighborhood.

And when this doesn’t happen, women like you get depressed. Nothing is guaranteed in life and you should have taken all of this into consideration. [/quote]

OP, I hope you are letting all of the comments like this bounce off your psyche.  "Women like you" is so dismissive and so unnecessary.  I know you trusted in the choices that you made, with the information that you had and the understanding of yourself as you did then.  Perhaps you would choose differently now, or maybe you would not choose differently now, but I hear you that you are in tough place and that's a painful place too.  Your journey is yours alone, and the people you meet all have different paths as well.  Cherish those who are kind and ignore those who are not.  Each individual's behavior reflects them.  Your dignity and value is inherent regardless of what things look like on the outside to anyone else.  You are smart and capable and worthy of your time and your interest in your own affairs.  I hope you will take heart in your strength and goodness and take care of yourself with the same amount of concern and kindness as you have done for others.[/quote]

ps also consider getting a physical and screenings for anxiety and depression; both/either will rob you of every good element in your life and blind you to the problem that you actually may be navigating

Take care of yourself, there is only one of you![/quote]

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