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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with you.  It bothers me because the talk around universal preK is really a push to not tackle the real issue: most families cannot afford to live without two working parents.  I wish they'd tackle housing costs, college costs, wages, etc. that would allow people to make the best decision for their family, whether that's working or staying home.[/quote]

unless you want to live in a command economy, most of those things aren't fixable. Providing supports like universal prek is achievable [/quote]

I disagree. College costs rising are directly tied with government-backed educational loans. That is a problem of our own making. We could limit foreign investment on housing. We could raise taxes on non-primary homes and air bnb situations that lower supply. There are options to fix these problems. [/quote]

do you really think air bnb and Chinese investment properties matter more than at the edges? If I want to to buy an 850k home in Springfield, how much of the price that I will pay is a result of non-primary homes? Do you want to pull government backed education loans and leave middle class families without any ability to send their kids to school? Those loans are the only thing enabling large swaths of kids to attend college in the first place. I notice you didn't mention wages, because we're coming up on 50 years of wage stagnation relative to inflation, but no one even pretends to have an answer to that one at this point even though it's at the root of all of these issues [/quote]

It's not just Chinese investment.  I'm just debating your point that they're not fixable.

For college, I did not even imply middle-class families should bypass college.  I am questioning why college prices have increased so much.  Huge loans for students mean limited opportunities in the future.  It means delayed home ownership and retirement.  It means less money passed along to their kids and widening of the wealth gap over generations.  We should be questioning college costs and if the value they provide is actually in line with the cost.[/quote]

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