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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you talk about what your parents say, what your friends did, what's "normal"-- do you have any opinions of your own?  You don't have to do what's "normal" and if you think your parents are the boss of this you are not mature enough to get married.  Try to figure out what is right for the two of you, unique individuals.  Not what's right for other people.[/quote]

OP here. I don’t think my parents are the boss. I look up to them because they have been happily married for over 20 years. I want the mind fo marriage they have. Almost all of aunts and and uncles have been married for 20+ years. Some have been together for over 40 years. They all lived together. Most of my friends have very happy marriages and all lived together first. One of my friends had his fiancé break up with him after they moved on together but she said she realized she couldn’t live with him. I have my own opinions, but I also look to those who can give good advice on marriage.

Her family all got married before moving in and that is what she is used to. [/quote]

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